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=Cuckold= From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia This article is about the term. For the 1997 novel by Kiran Nagarkar, see Cuckold (novel). For the 2015 South African film, see Cuckold (film).A cuckold (sometimes shortened to cuck) is the husband of an adulterous wife. In evolutionary biology, the term is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effortin offspring that are not genetically their own.[1]



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[hide]  *1 History of the term  ==History of the term[ edit] == c. 1815 French satire on cuckoldry, which shows both men and women wearing horns.The word "cuckold" derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to its habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests.[2] [3]  The association is common in medieval folklore, literature, and iconography.
 * 2 Metaphor and symbolism
 * 3 Cuckoldry as a fetish
 * 3.1 Theories in psychology
 * 4 Theories in evolutionary biology and psychology
 * 5 See also
 * <span class="tocnumber" style="display:table-cell;text-decoration:inherit;padding-left:0px;padding-right:0.5em;">6 References
 * <span class="tocnumber" style="display:table-cell;text-decoration:inherit;padding-left:0px;padding-right:0.5em;">7 External links

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" (l. 1544). The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440). In the late 14th century, the term also appeared inGeoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale".<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-BBC_2009_3-1" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[3]  Shakespeare's poetry often referred to cuckolds, with several of his characters suspecting they had become one.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-BBC_2009_3-2" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[3]

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">The female equivalent "cuckquean" first appears in English literature in 1562, adding a female suffix to the "cuck". One often overlooked subtlety of the word is that it implies that the husband is "deceived", that he is unaware of his wife's unfaithfulness and may not know until the arrival or growth of a child plainly not his (as with cuckoo birds).<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-BBC_2009_3-3" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[3]

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">A related word, first appearing in 1520, is "wittol", which substitutes "wit" (in the sense of "knowing") for the first part of the word, referring to a man aware of and reconciled to his wife's infidelity.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-4" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[4] ==Metaphor and symbolism<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] == <p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">In Western traditions, cuckolds have sometimes been described as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing the horns." This is an allusion to the mating habits of stags, who forfeit their mates when they are defeated by another male.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-5" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[5]  In Italy (especially in Southern Italy, where it is a major personal offence), the insult is often accompanied by the sign of the horns. In French, the term is porter des cornes, which is used by Molière to describe someone whose consort has been unfaithful. In German, the term is "jemandem Hörner aufsetzen", or "Hörner tragen", the husband is "der gehörnte Ehemann". Rabelais wrote the Tiers Livers of Gargantua and Pantagruel in 1546, by which time the symbol of the horns was "so well-known and over-used that the author could barely avoid making reference to it."<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-6" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[6]  Molière's L'École des femmes (1662) is the story of a man who mocks cuckolds and becomes one at the end. In Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tales (c. 1372–77), the "The Miller's Tale" is a story that humorously examines the life of a cuckold. In Chinese usage, an altogether different allusion is used, when the cuckold (or wittol) is said to be "戴綠帽子" (wearing the green hat), which derives from the sumptuary laws used in China from the 13th to the 18th centuries which required the males in households with prostitutes to wrap their heads in a green scarf (or later a hat).<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-7" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[7] ==Cuckoldry as a fetish<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] == <p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is frequently called a hotwife or a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-8" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[8] <sup class="noprint Inline-Template" style="line-height:1;font-size:11.2px;white-space:nowrap;">[page needed] ===Theories in psychology<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] === <p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism, the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-9" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[9] <sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-10" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[10]  In Freudian analysis, cuckold fetishism is the eroticization of the fears of infidelity and of failure in the man's competition for procreation and the affection of females.<sup class="noprint Inline-Template Template-Fact" style="line-height:1;font-size:11.2px;white-space:nowrap;">[citation needed]  In his book Masochism and the Self, psychologist Roy Baumeisteradvanced a Self Theory analysis that cuckolding (other forms of sexual masochism) among otherwise mentally healthy people was a form of escapism. According to this theory, cuckold fetishists are relieving themselves of the stress of the burden of their social role and escaping into a simpler, less-expansive position.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-11" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[11]

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">If a couple can keep the fantasy in the bedroom, or come to an agreement where being cuckolded in reality does not damage the relationship, they may try it out in reality.<sup class="noprint Inline-Template Template-Fact" style="line-height:1;font-size:11.2px;white-space:nowrap;">[citation needed] However, the primary proponent of the fantasy is almost always the one being humiliated, or the "cuckold": the cuckold convinces his lover to participate in the fantasy for them, though other "cuckolds" may prefer their lover to initiate the situation instead. The fetish fantasy does not work at all if the cuckold is being humiliated against their will.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-12" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[12] ==Theories in evolutionary biology and psychology<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] == <p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">In evolutionary biology, the term cuckold is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. As noted above, the term cuckold is derivative of the mis-directed parental investment of birds who direct parental investment to the eggs that cuckoo birds have laid in their nests.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-Steven_M_2006_1-1" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[1]

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">In his book Sperm Wars, biologist Robin Baker speculated that the excitement and stimulation of the cuckolding fetish emerges from the biology of sexuality and the effects of sexual arousal on the brain, although it is important to note the word "cuckold" does not appear in his book. According to one of his theories, Baker believes that when a man thinks that his female mate may have been sexual with another man, the man is prompted by biological urges to copulate with the female in an effort to "compete" with the other man's sperm. Baker is also one of the few proponents of the theory of Killer Sperm, the idea that sperm compete not only for first access to the egg but by "attacking" other sperm. Although this idea appears frequently in cuckold fetish material, very few biologists share this view.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-13" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[13] <sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-14" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[14]

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">Baker and his proponents' views conflict with the hypothesized foundations for sexual jealousy in evolutionary psychology, which is rooted in the idea that men, specifically, will react jealously to sexual infidelity on the parts of their mates.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-Harris2002_15-0" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[15]  Infidelity is also the number one cause for divorce.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-16" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[16]

<p style="margin:0.5em0px;line-height:inherit;">The cuckold’s urge to thrust, through intercourse or masturbation, is often enhanced by the presence of the bull, whether real or fantasized. A study by Gordon Gallup and coworkers (2003) concluded that one evolutionary purpose of the thrusting motion characteristic of intense intercourse is for the penis to “upsuck” another man’s semen before depositing its own.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-17" style="line-height:1;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-size:11.2px;font-weight:normal;">[17] ==See also<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] == ==References<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] == ==External links<span class="mw-editsection" style="-webkit-user-select:none;font-size:small;font-weight:normal;margin-left:1em;vertical-align:baseline;line-height:1em;display:inline-block;white-space:nowrap;unicode-bidi:isolate;font-family:sans-serif;"><span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-right:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">[ edit<span class="mw-editsection-bracket" style="margin-left:0.25em;color:rgb(85,85,85);">] == Categories: <ac_metadata title="/pol/ was right again"> </ac_metadata>
 * Adultery
 * Candaulism
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 * Cuckquean
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 * Erotic humiliation
 * Female dominance
 * Female promiscuity
 * Feminization (activity)
 * Hotwife
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 * Polyandry, marriage to plural husbands
 * Pregnancy fetishism
 * Swinging
 * Wittol
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 * The dictionary definition of cuckold at Wiktionary
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 * Sexual fetishism