User blog comment:Asdf Mapping/Annoucement/@comment-16302153-20151118130221/@comment-5590986-20151118155528

It's like the opposite, they give me freedom when I was little before 12, after that they started to become controlling. Like they cut me off and ground me when I am trying to defend myself in an argument and misunderstanding.

I wanted to become independent through baby-steps (like learning to know how to cook for myself or other fields bit by bit) but they expect me to be fully-independent when I want to. I fear this would prove a problem someday, I wouldn't be used to surviving on my own if they keep doing this.